T.R.U.S.T

Trust;

Reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc of a person or thing.

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A friend of mine needed to get some info (about a completely unrelated topic that im not going into as its 100% irrelevant) from an email in her bfs account as she no longer had it in her account and it would be on one she sent to him. His password is same for pretty much everything and he knows she knows them. So when she was looking for this email she wasnt sure where it would be - knowing he saved it she checked the obvious file first. Saved Files. What she wasnt expecting was 2 emails from some chick called Natasha. Opening up we figured out she comes from Russia, a kindy teacher and thought her bf was a romantic great kind of guy and while the emails were not exactly explicit in wording or anything like that there was something there would upset every girl who came across emails like this in her bfs account. My friend and her partner have had a real rough time and in her past relationship she was cheated on and i think slightly over-reacted but she had cause to. If Mark had those emails I would flip, maybe not break up over but make his life hell for awhile.

But isnt this what love really is? Giving someone the power to absolutely hurt you but trusting them not to. Without trust there can be love - can they come back from this? It all comes down to finding the person who loves the you that you love - and trusting them not reject or change that part of you. Like in Bridget Jones when Darcy tells Bridget "I like you, just as you are." But what do when that trust is broken? It can take years to trust a person and only seconds to destroy it. You'd think with something so precious people would be more careful and keep more guarded but you can only keep the walls up for so long.

Who knows?